I can't believe a book like this would set me to tears. Though I'm not particularly similar but there's parts that made me reflect and I was so shameful of what I did yet it's not a culture for typical Chinese to be emotionally expressive. Imagine a egoistic self contained male, most Chinese are like that. Affections and emotions are not typical scenes almost like allergy and most of the times we forgot or actually we don't know how to show our love and gratitude to love ones. A sudden urge to call and say I love you and I'm glad to have u guys in my life but the typical me just dismiss the idea that it would be absurd and to avoid the awkwardness and bombardment of "are you alright ?" Questions
(I might regret for not doing it one day.)

 I may not be specifically affected by that problem I do have my own insecurity and some thoughts were so familiar like I could feel what she was going through. The difference is I'm still stuck there. I guess ppl like me tend to be cynical at things. Like it seems like she has recovered and got her happily ever after but there must be other problems or stuffs they r hiding. She's happy now then what about the other person they left so abruptly so irresponsibly. They look like such good ppl but must be certain stages in their life that they r just as ugly as selfish anyone can be. Ppl just can't be nice and kind all the time.
(Books too can be deceiving sometimes just like how ppl want others to perceive them, books instills certain image and idea the author wants readers to believe)